Your Relationship with Yourself


  1. Lesly Federici
    Lesly Federici June 21, 2013 at 7:09 pm .

    Hi Cherri,
    Learning how to love yourself is the most wonderful experience you could ever have.. it allows you to be free from judgement and many other emotions that can hold you back from really happiness. Everything is easier when you just embrace yourself. Teaching this to kids early in their lives is so important … they will benefit from it greatly …

  2. Jimmie Barber
    Jimmie Barber June 22, 2013 at 10:05 pm .

    What a nice post Cherrie, I think to that we need to learn to not only love ourselves first, but also treat yourself to some of the things that are of benefit to us only. It’s only then, when we can look ourselves in the mirror and start treating others well.


  3. Chery Schmidt
    Chery Schmidt June 24, 2013 at 8:51 pm .

    Hey Cherrie! This is a great reminder to all of us. Take time to smell the roses so to say!! I have taken the last few months just to work on ME! And I have become a much better person for this too.. I do know that spending time with my grandson has also made me more aware of how I am taking care of Myself as well.. Thanks for sharing.. Chery 🙂

  4. Sue | London Life Coach
    Sue | London Life Coach June 26, 2013 at 10:34 pm .

    “The more you have love for yourself, the more love you are capable of loving others.” This makes a love of sense to me. You can’t spread love if you don’t feel it within you. That’s why it is very important for us to take care of ourselves. Avoid stress and be happy with what you do. 🙂

  5. nick catricala
    nick catricala June 30, 2013 at 12:18 pm .

    so much to learn for what you have leaned about “loving yourself”.

    Learning how to love yourself has been hard for me in later years, but I was lucky to encounter some life circumstances that changed all that and some how “loving my self” was the only option and that was when I truly got it that ‘loving your self is the way to open doors along your journey called life because it allows us to be free from many negative emotions that can hold us back from experiencing what we consider to be real happiness for us and everyone around us.

    Thanks so much for sharing some of your loving wisdom..

  6. Nile
    Nile June 30, 2013 at 8:38 pm .

    I have never been hung up on looks and my confidence stems from my knowledge and experience. I’ve always known what I wanted and who I am from even a young age.

    You definitely have to have a relationship with yourself to get to know what you want and who you want to be, even with others.

  7. Julieanne van Zyl
    Julieanne van Zyl July 5, 2013 at 7:36 pm .

    Hi Cherrie, I don’t think anyone can be happy, unless they like themselves, even a little bit! You can tell when a teenager has been told they’re “no good” or “a loser”, because they’re not happy, and don’t have any self esteem. Great reminder for all of us, thank you!

  8. Yorinda
    Yorinda July 5, 2013 at 9:27 pm .

    Hi Cherrie,
    yes, I agree with you, the relationship with ourselves is the most important one!
    Wouldn’t it be nice if the children nowadays would grow up learning that in a healthy way.
    You are certainly contributing to that with the books you are creating for children!
    Love and Light

  9. Donna Merrill
    Donna Merrill July 6, 2013 at 8:41 pm .

    Hi Cherrie!

    What an important message! Loving yourself is one of the most important things we can do. Loving ourselves gives a great example to our children. I do believe that kids learn more from our behavior than anything else.
    When we love ourselves, we give a fine example for our children and everyone around us.
    I must admit, it took a lot of work for me to get to this point in my life, but when I did, it was the most beautiful experience!
    Thanks for bringing this to light.

  10. Emily @ Techpatio
    Emily @ Techpatio July 8, 2013 at 10:27 am .

    Hi Cherrie,
    I wholeheardtedly agree with you. If you want others to show affection and love to you, you have to first love yourself so that you can be as friendly and loving as possible towards them. If you are feeling stressed and unhappy, try to relax, think about things that make you feel good and happy, and only then will you be able to make others happy with your presence. For me, the best thing that a person can give you is his/her time – when they spend some of their time with you and you feel good after talking/spending time with them, then that means you are doing great as a person.
    When a person hates others, then of course, you can’t help but think that in the first place, they hate something or many things about themselves. Being contented with what you have and being happy for what others have, and striving for what you want to achieve is the key to being a happy person, for your sake as well as for the others.
    Thank you very much for reminding us of this simple yet very important aspect in our lives – leading a good relationship with oneself.

  11. Raena Lynn
    Raena Lynn July 21, 2013 at 3:28 pm .

    Hi Cherrie,

    Your relationship with yourself is most important because you will not attract love without loving yourself first. You cannot give love without loving yourself first. You cannot find love to fill a void in yourself. It is up to you to build and nurture your self relationship.

    I commend you for your wonderful line of books of little stars.
    I love the titles:
    Wealthy Me!
    Grateful Me!
    Happy Me!
    Healthy Me!
    Awesome Me!

    These books are a great start for children to begin to understand and instill feelings of love for themselves early, and to develop into a more confident, loving, giving adult. I wish these were around when I was a kid. I think these are wonderful!

    Raena Lynn

    PS Congratulations on your app!

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